Within the last few years a new and
exciting science has been uncovered and explored. It is called body language.
Both its written form and the scientific study of it have been labelled
kinesics. Body language and kinesics are based on the behavioural patterns of
non-verbal communication, but kinesics is still so new as a science that its
authorities can be counted on the fingers of one hand. Clinical studies have
revealed the extent to which body
language can actually contradict verbal communications. A classic
example is the young woman who told her psychiatrist that she loved her
boyfriend very much while nodding her head from side to side in subconscious
denial.
Body language has also shed new light
on the dynamics of interfamily relationships. A family sitting together, for
example, can give a revealing picture of itself simply by the way its members
move their arms and legs. If them other crosses her legs first and the rest of
the family then follows suit, she has set the lead for the family action, though
she, as well as the rest of the family, may not be aware she is doing it. In
fact, her words may deny her leadership as she asks her husband or children for
advice. But the unspoken, follow-the-leader clue in her action gives the family
set-up away to someone knowledgeable in kinesics.
A New Signal from the Unconscious
Dr Edward H. Hess told a recent
convention of the American College of Medical Hypnotists of a newly discovered
kinesic signal. This is the unconscious widening of the pupil when the eye sees
something pleasant. On a useful plane, this can be of help in a poker game if
the player is in the 'know'. When his opponent's pupils widen, he can be sure
that his opponent is holding a good hand. The player may not even be conscious
of his ability to read this sign, any more than the other person is conscious
of telegraphing his own luck.
Dr Hess has found that the pupil of a
normal man's eye becomes twice as large when he sees a picture of a nude woman
On a commercial level, Dr Hess cites the use of this new kinesic principle to
detect the effect of an advertising commercial on television. While the
commercial is being shown to a selected audience, the eyes of the audience are
photographed. The film is then later carefully studied to detect just when
there is any widening of the eye; in other words, when there is any
unconscious, pleasant response
to the commercial.
Body language can include any
non-reflexive or reflexive movement of a part, or all of the body, used by a
person to communicate an emotional message to the outside world. To understand
this unspoken body language, kinesics experts often have to take into
consideration cultural differences and environmental differences. The average
man, unschooled in cultural nuances of body language, often misinterprets what
he sees.
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