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Friday 30 September 2016

OUR WORST ENEMY IS FEAR:

Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good
we oft might win, by fearing to attempt. "Shakespeare
THOUGHT'S most deadly instrument for marring human lives is fear. Fear demoralizes
character, destroys ambition, induces or causes disease, paralyzes happiness in self and others, and prevents achievement. It has not one redeeming quality. It is all evil. Physiologists now well know that it impoverishes the blood by demoralizing Assimilation and cutting off nutrition. It lowers mental and physical vitality, deadens
Every element of success. It is fatal to the happiness of youth, and is the most terrible
accompaniment of old age. Buoyancy flees before its terrifying glance, and cheerfulness
cannot dwell in the same house with it.
“The most extensive of all the morbid mental conditions which reflect themselves so disastrously on the human system is the state of fear," says Dr. William H. Holcomb. " It has many degrees or gradations, from the state of extreme alarm, fright, or terror, down to the slightest shade of apprehension of impending evil. But all along the line it is the same thing" A paralyzing impression upon the centres of life which can produce, through the agency of the nervous system, a vast variety of morbid symptoms in every tissue of the body."" Fear is like carbonic acid gas pumped into one's atmosphere," says Horace Fletcher." It causes mental, moral, and spiritual asphyxiation ,and sometimes death"  to energy, death to tissue, and death to all growth."Yet from our birth we live in the presence and under the dominion of this demon, fear. The child is cautioned a thousand times a year to look out for this, and to look out for that ;it may get poisoned, it may get bitten, it may get killed ; something terrible may happen to it if it does not do so and so. Men and women cannot bear the sight of some harmless animal or insect because, as children, they were told it would hurt them. One of the crudest things imaginable is to impress into a child's plastic mind the terrible image of fear, which, like the letters cut upon a sapling, grows wider and deeper with age. The baleful shadows of such blasting and blighting pictures will hang over the whole life and shutout the bright sun of joy and happiness. An Australian writer saves :" One of the worst misfortunes which can possibly happen to a growing child is to have a mother who is perpetually tormented by nervous fears. If ^ mother gives way to fears" ^morbid, minute, and all-prevailing " ^she will inevitably make the environment of her children one of increasing dread and timidity. The background of fear is the habit or instinct
of anticipating the worst. The mother who never makes a move, or allows her children to
make a move, without conjuring up a myriad of malign possibilities, im bitters the cup of life with a slow-acting poison" I know that thousands of boys and girls are to-day tremulous, weak, passive, unalert on the physical side, simply because they were taught in the knicker bocker stage, or earlier, to see the potency of danger in all they did or tried to do. A mother assumes a terrible responsibility when from silly fears of possible
injury she forbids a child such physical abandon will promote courage, endurance, self reliance, and self-control."
" For more than twenty years I have made a study of criminal psychology and of infantile psychology," says Dr. Lino Ferriani." Thousands of times I have been compelled to recognize the sad fact that at least eighty eight per cent, of morbidly timid   children could have been cured and saved in time by means of common-sense principles of physical and physiological hygiene, in which the main factor is suggestion inspired by wholesome courage."Not content with instilling fear of possibly real things, many mothers and most nurses invent all sorts of bugbears and bogies to frighten poor babies into obedience. They even attempt to induce sleep by telling children," If you don't go right to sleep, a great big bear will come and eat you up ! *' How much sleep would a grown man get in a situation where this was a real possibility? Fear of the dark would seldom exist if parents carefully showed children that nothing is different in the dark from what it is in the light. Instead of so doing, they take pains to people the mysterious dark with every sort of ogre and monsters that human imagination has been able to conjure up. Some one has well expressed inverse this cruel but too common sin against healthy-minded childhood Go into almost any gathering, no matter how gay and happy the crowds seem to be, you will find, if you question anyone of even the gayest, that the canker-worm of fear gnaws at the heart in some form. The fear of accident, of sickness, of poverty, of death, of some terrible misfortune, still lingers during the greatest apparent gayety. Thousands
of people thus pass their lives under the shadow of fear, haunted by the dread of some vague, impending evil. Many men and women narrow their lives by worrying over what may happen to morrow-The family cannot afford to have any little, legitimate pleasure, to travel, or to take the leading magazines or papers. They cannot afford much-needed vacations. They must economize on clothes, on food even, and on every form of culture or recreation costing money, simply because times may be hard next year.
“There may be a financial panic," urges the pessimist. “Some of the children may be sick, the times may be bad, our crops may fail, some business venture may not caused. We can't tell what might happen, but we must prepare for the worst" The lives of hundreds of families are mutilated, sometimes utterly ruined, by this bugbear of misfortune just ahead.
One of the worst features of this parsimonious anxious, Un trustful way of living is that
it stunts the development of young lives, and throws its dark shadow over the future as
well as the present. A girl or boy, for instance, should go to college this year. Time flies
quickly, and almost before they realize it they will be too old to go. But the father and
mother assures themselves that they cannot afford any extra expense this year; the children must wait a little longer; and every year it is the same: ''They must wait a little
longer."How many men and women are handicapped in their life-work, robbed of their possibilities, because lacking an education which parents, in anticipation of reverses that never came, postponed until too late? No one should discourage proper economy
and frugality, but this gloomy fear that" something may happen," this postponing enjoyment, education, culture, travel, books, innocent pleasures of every kind, until the
sensibilities become hardened, until the aesthetic facilities are dead, is a disease of narrow, untruthful souls, which every sane person should combat. Think of the millions of human creatures that God has made and placed on this glad earth, endowed with every faculty possible to enable them to enjoy life, wasting precious years in worrying and fretting lest something may happen.
How pitiful are the anxious, wrinkled faces,  gray hairs, the unhappy expressions of
those who worry about possible misfortunes! Not one wrinkle in a thousand, not one gray hair in a million, has been produced by actual ills. The things which turn hair gray and plough fair faces with cruel furrows, which rob the step of elasticity, and take the buoyancy from life are bridges that never were crossed, misfortunes that never came. The sorrows and trials which actually come to us are, except in rare instances, trifling, compared with the things about which we worry, but which never come to pass. What a waste of energy and human life is involved in this pernicious habit of anticipating evil ! Think of the amount of work you could have accomplished by the mental and physical
force you have expended in fearing what might happen " but which did not. Think of the wasted hours in which you planned what you would do if misfortune should come.
If we could only rid ourselves of imaginary troubles, our lives would be infinitely happier
and healthier. Thus one of the greatest tasks in character-building is to eliminate, to uproot, to wipe out completely the baleful effects of fear in all its varieties of manifestation. No one can lead a naturally healthy, sunny, helpful, harmonious life while living in a fear environment. No one can hope to be entirely happy and successful without the destruction, the eradication, of the fear-germs. Were this done, the world would be gloriously changed for the better. It is the duty of every individual to conquer this common enemy in his own mind, and to do all he can to wrest other people, especially the young, from the dominion of this phantom monster. Happily, thinkers
and investigators have proven that this may be done, and it is a glorious prophecy that
coming generations will be taught to banish all fear, to march, clear-eyed and confident,
toward the goal of perfect happiness.

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